James Elwyn Barfield, Jr.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of James Elwyn Barfield, Jr. (Jim), who left our earthly confines on May 8, 2025 at the age of 89. Jim was a devoted service member of the community, a cherished friend, and a beloved family member. His legacy will live on in the hearts and minds of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Born on April 14, 1936, Jim was born in Charleston, SC to Sarah Dengate and James Elwyn Barfield, Sr. who predeceased him. Jim spent his formative years in both Charleston, SC and Lynchburg, SC, spending some of his formative years with Gussie and Jimmie Dougherty, Jr. on their tobacco farm. The values instilled in Jim during these early years shaped him into the compassionate and generous person he became.

After graduation from Lynchburg High School, Jim pursued his education in Economics, attending the University of South Carolina, where he made lifelong friendships including his Sigma Phi Epsilon brothers, and Delta Sigma Pi Beta Gamma Chapter colleagues. Jim also served in the U.S. Air Force and pursued a law degree on the GI Bill, attending the University of South Carolina’s School of Law. After graduation, Jim embarked on a successful career in Law and served in the U.S. Air Force Reserve where he was known for his dedication, professionalism, and devoted service until retirement with 35 years of service as a Lt. Colonel. Jim received The United States of America, Meritorious Service Medal on July 11, 1989.

Jim was a beloved family member, always providing as a true southern gentleman does. He shared a wonderful life with his wife of 60 years, Linda Moore Barfield, his children Elizabeth, Margaret, John, Binh, grandson Dylan, and pup Gretchen; creating countless cherished memories. Jim is survived by those family members, a sister-in-law Carol Moore, and cousins Frances Dengate, Patty Procopio, Jimmy Dengate, as well as nieces and nephews. Jim's love for his fellow man was evident in every aspect of his life, from the small, everyday moments to the countless people he has assisted with a true servant’s heart.

Jim was deeply involved in the community, contributing his time and talents to numerous causes and organizations. Jim’s commitment to making the world a better place was reflected in his charter and 50+ year membership in the Lexington Rotary Club, a 50+ year membership in the SC Bar Association, and as a member of St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Columbia, and a founding member of Corpus Christi Catholic Church where he served in all capacities. Jim was also a member of the Columbia Oyster Club.

The legacy of Jim is one of kindness, generosity, and unwavering support for others. He touched the lives of many, leaving behind a lasting impression that will continue to inspire and uplift those who knew him. His spirit will live on through the stories shared, the lessons learned, and the love that endures.

A visitation to honor Jim's life will be held on Sunday, May 11 from 3pm to 5pm at Barr-Price Funeral Home in Lexington. Friends, family, and all who knew Jim are invited to come together to celebrate their life, share memories, and offer support to one another during this difficult time. Also, a Catholic Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Corpus Christi Catholic Church on Tuesday, May 13 at 12pm. All are invited to attend.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made in Jim’s name to A Living Tribute, a cause close to Jim's heart. Contributions may also be made to the Lexington Rotary Club, Scholarship Program, a legacy that will continue his work and help to carry forward the values he held dear.

Though Jim is no longer with us, his spirit remains. We find comfort in the memories, the love, and the laughter shared. As we mourn the loss, we also celebrate the incredible life that Jim lived. He may be gone, but he will not be forgotten.

Rest in peace, Jim. You will be forever remembered and cherished.

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